About Us


Welcome to Kink, etc…  We’re happy you’ve stopped by.

Kink, Etc… is the new home of our original blog 50 Shades of Rediscovering Love which began on Blogger in Dec, 2012. We are happy to have moved and expanded from the few EdenFantasys posts that we started with. (In case you’re looking for a few of those early posts, I’m sorry many have been removed due to issues with me breaking away from EF) With a passion to share that Kink is fun and exciting no matter what your age, we are dedicated to the long term growth of Kink, Etc… and have many changes/additions in the works.

Who are we? 

 I’m Lori and my better half is Hubby.

After 18 years of marriage, both the kids have grown and are now serving in the Army. Finding ourselves facing an empty nest, we turned our attention to each other and discovered a whole new world.

 We’ve realized that as part of the Forty Something generation, you’re never too old to discover new pleasures. Through exploring all sorts of sexual desires, we’re rediscovering each other, love and sex. More in love than the day we married, I can’t fathom why we waited so long for this. 

 Being the outgoing person that I am, I love to talk and share our experiences. I firmly believe that other people, weather you’re married or single, young or old, stereo typical or part of the LGBT community; it’s ok to explore your sexual fantasies and discover new passions. You don’t have to look perfect, it’s not only for the younger generation, you don’t have to be part of some dark sub culture of society and there doesn’t have to be some ugly stigma attached to it. We encourage you to find your sexual freedom.  


In a past life, I worked in the sex industry within the French Quarter. Needless to say, it left me a bit of an exhibitionist. As you can see strolling through our Kink Chronicles, I love to take pictures and have my picture taken. Also, through our Kink Chronicles we desire to share real stories about our experiences in hope of sparking an interest or encouraging others that they can explore too. We are even trying our hand at writing a bit of erotica.


We love using sex toys and kinky tools and in our Review section we share about the toys we test out. We’re up for trying anything once or twice just in case we like it better the next time. In our review section, you’ll find all sorts of fun stuff that you just might want to try out.


We truly believe that exploring yourself and your partner sexually adds a whole new dimension to your relationship and helps you connect on a deeper level. Sex is not something to be ashamed of and if it feels good it’s not a bad thing. It’s ok to use sex toys, it’s ok to be kinky; sex doesn’t have to be the same thing year after year.  


Coming out of the closet, so to say; and stepping into the light Kink, Ect… is where we step out and share all about our journey. Follow us and start our own journey; there’s no telling what you’ll discover.


Have a question for LoriandHubby? Just ask. We’re here to help and encourage in any way we can. If we don’t know the answer, we’ll help you find it. Just contact us, we’re always happy to meet new friends.


Have a product you would like us to try out and share? Hubby and I love to try new toys and we’re always happy to share them with our readers. Use the ‘Contact Me’ page and we’ll be happy to work with you.  Also, through the BuZZ we promote great sites, products, manufactures, and more through all our social media outlets. Contact us to find out how we can help you get the word out. 

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