Hubby and I both adore strap-on sex. To be honest, I probably enjoy it more than him. There’s something empowering about strapping on my own dong and I love it.

Since we began exploring pegging a few years ago, we’ve acquired quite a collection of toys to use. Frustrated by harnesses and wanting to experience really having a cock, I’ve jumped at the chance to try any strapless strap-on that we could find.

Recently, New Love Creations launched their InJoyUs strapless strap-on and I couldn’t resist testing it out. Leaps and bounds above the others on the market, InJoyUs is unlike any other that we’ve tried. Want to know more about our experience with InJoyUs? You can read my entire review here.

How is this new toy different from the others? Let’s take a detailed look and compare the InJoyUs to the two most popular options the Feeldoe and the Share.

First up is the Fealdoe by Tantus. The forerunner in strapless strap-on’s, the Feeldoe is Designed by women for women.  Tantus is well known and adored for the great look and feel of their toys and the Feeldoe is no exception. Firm and solid, the cock is sloped gradually widening at the shaft. Also, the cock’s length is perfect to reach deep inside of your lover while you play.

The Feeldoe’s pony end is shaped to easily insert inside of you and allows you to grip it firmly with your PC muscles holding it in place. Shaped like an elongated egg, it tilts forward inside of you as you play for extra stimulation. However the neck is flexible and it doesn’t feel firm and solid inside of you. The saddle is wide and designed to allow your body to sit in the slope giving the dong a realistic look. In addition, with ribs along the saddle it rubs your clit while you play.

Although the Feeldoe was ground breaking in its time, for many users panties or a harness is required to keep it securely inside of them. Because most women don’t have muscles of steal, gripping onto the pony and keeping it in while thrusting is tricky at best. Being creative, I’ve figured some ways to make it work in certain positions and at times it’s more fun than wearing a harness. However, Hubby tends to not enjoy playing with it because the dong tends to push awkwardly upward inside of him.

When the Fun Factory released the Share, I was thrilled. Shaped similar to a G-spot toy, the Share’s pony end is created with a hock. Reaching around inside of you to sit on that magic spot, the pony and the tight curved saddle work together to grip your body. The dong is thick and solid with a gradual slope down the shaft.

Performance wise, the Share is thick, solid and heavy; especially at the saddle. Although the pony reaches up inside of me perfectly, the weight makes it difficult to hold in when moving around. In addition, the silicone is flexible and the neck flexes allowing the pony to easily slip out. The shape of the pony is good for G-spot pressure. However, the flexibility keeps the pony from giving that firm feeling against the G-spot. Being creative, it’s easy to figure out positions and ways to make it work better including a harness. Unfortatly, a true strapless strap-on it is not.

The latest strapless strap-on to the market is InJoyUs.  Created by New Love Creations, the InJoyUs is a complete strapless strap-on system allowing you to interchange the dong. Although at first glance it may appear very similar to the Share, it’s defiantly engineered very differently. Unlike the Share, the InJoyUs’ pony end is firm, mostly rigid and maintains its shape. Created with an inner stabilizer it has very little give. This inner core allows the pony to sit firmly inside of you and the neck doesn’t flex letting it fall our while you play. In addition, the pony is slightly larger than the Share and connects deeper with your body covering more of your G-spot area.

 What I like best about playing with InJoyUs, is that it stays in place and I don’t feel like it’s going to fall out of me at any moment. Although it does slip a bit when I get to wet or bear down with my PC muscles, I don’t have to be preoccupied with trying to hold onto it.

The saddle is stable and doesn’t flex under the weight of the dong, allowing the dong to stand erect at all times. Also, the saddle is created with a slightly tighter curve than the Share making the dong sit tight between my lips and against the clitoris. With the addition of ribs that extend up the attachment, even those with high clits like mine can feel the extra stimulation.

Created with an interlocking stem, you can change dildos. InJoyUs currently offers two styles in multiple colors. However, vacuum lock and dildos with bullet vibrator holes in the base should also work on the stem.

Unlike the other strapless strap-on’s that we own, the InJoyUs allows me to walk around and strut my stuff like I have a real dong. It doesn’t slip and fall out on the floor when I bend Hubby over the edge of the bed and take him from behind. It holds tight inside of me and rocks against my G-spot no matter what position we play in. I can even jack the dong off and the InJoyUs rocks against my G-spot firmly making my juices gush.

Finally there’s a strapless strap-on that truly works without a harness or having to be limited by the positions we can enjoy. Playing with the InJoyUs has opened up a whole new world for us. I hope this comparison helps you to understand and see the difference that InJoyUs can make for your strap-on play.