8 Responses

  1. curvaceousdee
    curvaceousdee at |

    This was such an amazing post to read – what a journey you have been on! It’s a great partnership that you and your hubby have, and it was a treat to have a glimpse into how you worked together to overcome this.

    xx Dee

  2. Hedone
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    Wow that is some story. Glad that you over came so much, which has allowed you to build a loving relationship with your hubby. Thank you for sharing.


  3. SunkissedJess (@SunkissedJess)
    SunkissedJess (@SunkissedJess) at |

    Beautiful story about overcoming your demons. Thanks for sharing it with us, Lori.

  4. Bedroom Bondage (@BedroomBondage)

    Oh yes.. the weight of a thick, leather jacket. I love it too, it feels so comforting.

    Wow, Lori.. what a deeply emotional article. Shivers ran down my spine reading it.. and not in a good way. I’m very tempted to say a lot about your ex-husband, but I won’t. You probably know what I want to say. All I can say is that I’m genuinely happy and relieved that you’re far away from him now.

    Even a tear rolled down my cheek when I read that your husband was so understanding.. I also have things from my past that were really hard to share with my boyfriend, so I know how crucial that is. As I read this, I think he’s an incredibly loving man, and I’m glad you two found each other, and that you gave that flogger a go and got over your fears. That just.. beautiful.

    One thing is sure.. I’m going to share this all over the place. This is definitely my favorite article from you.. it really touched me. Thank you so much for opening up, and for finding the courage to write this.

  5. Sammi
    Sammi at |

    I can’t imagine how hard that must have been, but it seems you have a wonderful husband who helped you past your demons. Wonderful post.

  6. Camryn Jones (@RynJ21)
    Camryn Jones (@RynJ21) at |

    This made me angry, sad, happy, and eager to see my partner. I know it wasn’t easy to write or share this, but I’m selfishly glad that you did. Stories about women like you that take back their sexual autonomy bring me comfort/reassurance and inspiration. I agree that the right partner(s) can make a great deal of difference, but in the end you’re the one that battles those demons.
    You are as brave as your ropework is beautiful. Happy flogging!

  7. Jade (@piecesofjade)
    Jade (@piecesofjade) at |

    What a stirring, beautiful story. I am continually inspired & awed by the range of responses I get in the #KOTW. Thank you so much for sharing this! And I am so happy that you have been able to overcome your past.


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